I messaged my cousin one day out of the blue because I got the ‘sixth sense’ feeling she was fighting with her husband. It’s a creepy thing that I do- high intuition+ mystical connection to the universe= creepy ESP. Anyway she was fighting with him and it had been a long, interesting, complicated fight.
We ended up having a massive conversation about relationships. At some point she asked, “how do you make a complicated thing, like a relationship between three people seem so simple.”
I had to laugh.
I said, “Don’t confuse complicated with complex.”
Complicated – American politics.
Complex- The human circulatory system.
Not to say that this trio doesn’t have its complications. I told her that E and L and I talk pretty much endlessly about relationships (not just ours but everyone’s)- not to mention the soul searching each of us have done in our own heads and hearts.
I thought I would share some of the topics that came up in that convo with my cuz in a post series called-
“My Cousin’s Questions.”
Some of the information might be repeated in past posts but I am hoping that my cousin’s perspectives can help all of us grow in our relationships….
Lofty goals but – go big or go home?
Check back for Part 1: “He is so similar but annoyingly different.”