it is what it is

L sits on the couch playing a video game. I watch for a while as they try and pick butterflies out of the air then fight off a wolf pack by shooting flames from their lizard character’s hands. This is pretty standard. It's a staple game in our house. My goal in the game is... Continue Reading →

My Cousin’s Questions Final Part: Multiple Relationships.

I don't think polyamory is as unfamiliar an idea as people think, but they only understand the idea of “multiple loves” when its applied to other relationship categories. Some of the examples where people have multiples in a relationship category include parents, siblings, uncles, best friends, pets, kids, teammates, coworkers…  While everyone approaches it differently,... Continue Reading →

Traffic and other such games

I think everything in South Florida agrees that night time is the best time to go outside. I mean it doesn't change the fact that it is still stupidly hot and humid, but it is better than daytime. E and I take walks then too, with the slugs, and the frogs, and the opossums. I... Continue Reading →

A week- we had one

This week was a lot! L had many meetings at work- their job has been an interesting hell-scape due to the bad science of one of their coworkers... that guys last day was Friday! WWOOOTTTTT. E had an interview and will hopefully have a cool new job helping LGBTQA+ youth. We all think it would... Continue Reading →

Community- hard to find

We think it is important to have a community. It is hard to find one though. We have been searching for a poly group to join pretty much since we moved to Florida. And by we ... I mean E. He puts in the most effort into those things sometimes. Maybe it's because he is... Continue Reading →

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