E and I went to a poly brunch / discussion group and an interesting point came up. There are some people who are poly hings in the group and they all sort of said that if you are a poly person you should NOT do two things. Do not date people who do not date... Continue Reading →
Code-switching
I have finally landed on a decent explanation about what it takes for our triad to communicate. Code-switching! According to the definition I just looked up code-switching is "the practice of alternating between two or more languages or varieties of language in conversation," (insert citation for Google here). I think we are pretty darn good... Continue Reading →
A week- we had one
This week was a lot! L had many meetings at work- their job has been an interesting hell-scape due to the bad science of one of their coworkers... that guys last day was Friday! WWOOOTTTTT. E had an interview and will hopefully have a cool new job helping LGBTQA+ youth. We all think it would... Continue Reading →
The Secrets of Chikorita- It’s a choice
We went to play Pokemon GO this weekend. It was community day for Chikorita and I was faced with a choice. Do I give up the goat and play the 'danged' game or do I just wander around with E and L watching them play like I usually do. Well let me tell you something... Continue Reading →
A better poly show than that other poly show!
WE FELL IN LOVE WITH THIS SHOW. Black Sails is about pirates, obvs. And it is very violent and very graphic and has sex, drugs, bad language, slavery (I had a problem with this), sexual violence (had a problem with this too) ... it was on Starz so... you know. Now it's on Hulu. If... Continue Reading →
New City New Job… Same Struggle
So this triad doesn't have a lot of money. It has been an interesting struggle to try and put our three lives on the same page as each other- especially when it comes to money. You don't want to be the guy who gets your roommate/meta tossed onto the street cuz you can't pay rent-... Continue Reading →
Arguing three ways
We get asked a lot "What happens when all of you fight at once?" The long and the short of it is - it depends on the day. Today was something special. Usually when we all argue with each other it is because we all are frustrated by different things. Today it was some blurry... Continue Reading →
Can I be forgiven
Apparently a lot can happen when you are trying to avoid a writing a post. writing about cheating was too hard. Apparently I am pretty grey about it. I thought that I had more... commitment to a side but I don't. I honestly don't know why I thought that. I am very rarely committed to... Continue Reading →
Poly blog about poly show- Part one “Primary Partner Entitlement”
E and I are pretty terrible about binge watching shows. L is pretty “about” it too, but with them in Florida it is just me and E. One of the more recent shows we consumed en masse was Showtime's Polyamory: Married & Dating- a two season documentary about a poly-quad (the same one for both... Continue Reading →